Better Aligned.
Our conflict styles and patterns can be such revealers of our sensitivities and our limits. It's easy to blame, get judgy, get avoidant and become a victim of our habits.
Often these patterns are the same ones that prevent us from seeing the situation in a new light. There are jewels or understandings to be gleaned but they are not easy to find.
The good news is that we can learn essential skills and develop our intelligence and intuition for what to do and how to move forward in a heartful, benevolent yet effective way. We can learn to be better advocates, partners and friends, and feel more confident in the impact of our work. This work creates virtuous cycles and outcomes.
I teach negotiation from a mediator's and peacebuilder's point of view, and I advise on communication from a conflict resolution specialist's point of view. I work with people live by their values and are ready to make immediate and powerful shifts. Our approach to what is hard in life shapes our approach, and ultimately, shapes the pathway through.
I offer personalised coaching to help people grow beyond their habitual struggles and redesign life trajectories. Communication and relationship work is included, alongside cultivating profound self-trust, deepening knowledge of and love of oneself.
I serve teams and leaders who want to effectively advocate for their interests and gracefully leverage the wisdom in their conflicts, internally or externally, so they can keep moving forward. Together, we can design and embody cultures of integrity, truth and kindness.
I hold space for people ready to deepen into the ancient and trustable practice of meditation. The gifts of mindful awareness are plenty, as are the access points, but choice and action are singular. Making space for and prioritizing meditation is a decision we can take daily.
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Coach, author and guide Kim Loh works at the meeting places of coaching, conflict resolution and mindfulness.
Kim helps people move past impasse and transform themselves and the path forward.
CONFLICT COACHING
We stifle our potential when communication breaks down and people can no longer stand each other, let alone collaborate. My work helps people understand that conflict is an opportunity to grow, and grasp things previously misunderstood. We can foster the meaningful changes we want through developing strong, trustable relationships, and valuing the wisdom in our diversity.
I train others to facilitate and mediate conflict, so that they can work in their own organizations and communities in an ongoing way to liberate stuck dynamics and channel energy into better processes of collective understanding, healing and problem-solving.
Compassionate Conversations:
How to Speak and Listen from the Heart
By Diane Musho Hamilton, Gabriel Menegale Wilson and Kimberly Myosai Loh
Our book intends to show that compassionate conversations can happen, even when challenging, and our differences can inform and inspire us, rather than overwhelm and divide us.
Shambhala Publications calls this definitive guide to learning effective skills for engaging in open and honest conversations about divisive issues.
This online course intends to show that compassionate conversations can happen, even when challenging, and our differences can inform and inspire us, rather than overwhelm and divide us.
Kim Loh recently appeared on the Wonderdome podcast, for a heart-felt and sincere conversation, offering lenses through which to see conflict so that listeners can become more clarified in their perceptions and skillful in their ways of engaging.
Conversation has an immense power to deepen our relationships and cast light on our shared reality. Dialogue is the cornerstone of all significant change in society and the basis of our efforts to create fairer, more equitable conditions for everyone.
This online course intends to show that compassionate conversations can happen, even when challenging, and our differences can inform and inspire us, rather than overwhelm and divide us.
Kim Loh recently appeared on the Wonderdome podcast, for a heart-felt and sincere conversation, offering lenses through which to see conflict so that listeners can become more clarified in their perceptions and skillful in their ways of engaging.
Conversation has an immense power to deepen our relationships and cast light on our shared reality. Dialogue is the cornerstone of all significant change in society and the basis of our efforts to create fairer, more equitable conditions for everyone.
"Conflict work is intimate. It takes you to your limits and insists that you expand yourself beyond who you think you are. This is a part of being human."
KIM LOH
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